When we think of a 35 year old woman we think of either two scenarios; married woman living in the suburbs, happy with 2.5 children, living a normal life with a normal job. Then we think of the Sex and The City/Bridget Jones' Diary woman. She, in her mid thirties is still partying, still pursuing her dreams but is also in the desperate quest for love all while feeling inadequate because she hasn't found it yet.
But who wrote the rule book on what it means to be 35? What if doing whatever the hell you want at any age is the answer? What if pursuing to conquer your dreams, desires and to make a difference in the world is exactly what you are supposed to be doing at 35?
Well, that's what this newly 35 year old boss babe woman thinks!
I always felt that I was supposed to feel like an adult at this age, wasn't I supposed to be married with kids and go by what society told me I was to be at this age? What am I doing wrong?
Nothing. There is no rule book. There is no age reference. There is no to-do list or check mark list. You do what you want at any age as long as you are happy and following your passions.